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Sunday, July 27, 2008
Last post
It is time to move on! so i shan't be posting anything here! This blog just put an end to my university life and most importantly, my prev r/s.. I shall leave all unhappy memories and move on !
Right now , i am only left with 1 week of freedom before reality hits me!
27.7.08
Saturday, July 26, 2008
Different?
I think i have grown out a little..
just went to zouk -the place i hang out when i was really down 3 yrs ago..turned out pretty boring..i wonder y..
to add on, i don't want to see that person dancing with another gal/fling/ underage teenager ..whatever.
But i know i can't just keep avoiding him..Singapore is so small, so i will see him somewhere somehow...if he didn't appear, then im lucky.
it is nice to get a little high after u drink ..but it can be boring by just placing yr butt on the seat.
Dancing can be gd...but it gets too squeezy on the dancefloor..u may get uninvited guests trying to take advantage of u..n u will just get tired of shaking yr body coz u are old..
So hai..
Probably i haven find the ideal place to relax n unwind at nite..
probably i really need to take a break and stop thinking..
26.7.08
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
I couldn't believe that i actually lost weight ...
Hmm i wonder y..hmm hmm..
Karen said i move on pretty quickly..which i think it is a good thing..
i guess i am drifting in the big ocean now..
meanwhile i shall enjoy the scenery and float!
22.7.08
Sunday, July 20, 2008
Thanks!
I need to say many thanks to all who have been tagging this blog, comforting me by going out with me, msn-ing me, and the long phone calls as well..
Without the support from you guys, i guessed i couldn't go on with my existing life..
In fact, my life has become more happening ! haha..enjoying every bit of it!
Thanks A lot ! *muacks*
Btw, i realise a lot of people are breaking up in July .A total of 5 couples for this week? what a number!
Guess Qi yue is always a bad month! It doesn't matter whether it is in the ang moh calender or lunar calender.
20.7.08
Thursday, July 17, 2008
I think it is pretty unfair to be coping with the breakup. And Shoon Minghui is enjoying himself with another gal most probably..or gals?
Today is the 3rd day and i felt a lot better. Suddenly i felt a sense of relief..
Anyway , the blog will be closed soon for obvious reasons..And i won't have a new blog..
17.7.08
Monday, July 14, 2008
An email?
I can't believe he wanted to ended this with an email. With no clues or signals about breakup.. he just disappeared on saturday night and sent an sms on sunday to ask me to read an email that was written below..
"Dear Shu Juan,
I have probably caused you much grief and worry by now, considering that I
didn't pick up your call or reply your messages last night. I sincerely apologise for
my absurd conduct. I was at my friend's chalet/birthday party at Coasta Sands,
and upon doing so, I was already violating your trust again. In light of that, I don't
think I'm worthy of you Juan, and you did say that if I bluffed you one more time
we are over...
Yet, I honestly do not know why I did so. Perhaps it's because we've grown
distant since we went for your grad trip (but I know I shouldn't blame you), and
we've both been so busy with our own things, I've been stressed up with school,
training and work, that our feelings for one another aren't as strong as they are
supposed to be. It is likely to be after all, all my fault, and the fact that I'm not as
settled down as I'm supposed to be. I still do care for you, and I'm sure you do for
me...but at the current moment and because of my bad conduct, I think we need
a break, a break where we’re free to pursue our dreams, be it in work, activities
we like, our social lives, or even goals and objectives that we’ve set out to meet.
You've always been a close friend, advisor and playmate of mine, aside from
being my beloved, and I would like our friendship to survive even if we aren't
together anymore. I feel that we should just be friends, go out as friends for the
moment, and if in the future, if we do fall in love again, let time take its due
course. I can't bring myself to call you and tell you the following as I think we
would be too emotional to talk rationally and properly Shu Juan'please don’t
cry, because I’m not worth your tears'be strong, and I will be strong too'
being my beloved, and I would like our friendship to survive even if we aren't
together anymore. I feel that we should just be friends, go out as friends for the
moment, and if in the future, if we do fall in love again, let time take its due
course. I can't bring myself to call you and tell you the following as I think we
would be too emotional to talk rationally and properly Shu Juan'please don’t
cry, because I’m not worth your tears'be strong, and I will be strong too'
Your friend, "
Ming Hui
Ming Hui
An email is the worse form of communication..And the contents are as useless as it seems.. And i have to call him to ask him y.. a 3 year r/s can just end of with a phone call and emai. Omg. i guess i m fooled.
To that person who already consider me as a friend from my grad trip,
Sorry that i posted this Email but i think my friends ought to know what is happening..
and PLease leave a clue for me to uncover and stop shocking ppl like that. We just went out on mon and wed n u didn't even show any signs.Anyway enjoy your company of gals and your "happening" social life after you ditch me.. AIDS is the 1st thing i hope you will get.
Ok that basically shows how angry and upset i am. And it also shows how much i HATE him.
14.7.08
Wednesday, July 09, 2008
Tips for 1st dates
Since i have posted something "insightful" on the topaz blog, i thought might as well share the info to all! haha..although it is a little boliao..Topaz ppl ! sorry this is a repeated entry! haha..
First up i came up with : Bonus Point System on 1st dates
Ok what is this bonus point system about? As i told bennett and karen, it is a point system that we galz or rather some of us use it as a gauge to see if the date/admirer pass the 1st date.
So all guys start with 0 points on the 1st date.
All the actions below will lead to Negative Score!
1) LATE-ness
kao if u are late , u show NO respect to gals who makeup and make an effort to dress a bit nicer lo..Minus Minus!
2) Shorts and Tank top
hmm unless u are dating at sentosa, then i advice u not to show your armpit hairs and curly leg hairs ok! ( in case got some galz who are like me, miss hairphobic)
3) Bring only 10 dollars or insufficient funds
just bring a credit card or debit card, it is damn malu to say " oh i got no money.paiseh." when you need to try to impress the gal .1st impression gone lo! Galz are suppose to be pampered!
4) Nv send the gal home
Gals feel damn sad when guys nv send her home on the 1st date.then might as well just go out with a grp of friends lo.anyway it is the best time to know where the gal stay then u can send flowers etc etc. n u can spend the time to know the gal better.super ah gong to not send the gal home.
If you didn't do all that , then you will have 4 points! wah save! as long as nv negative can liao!
If u have a negative score , not to worry! i got bonus points to save you all from failing!
Bonus point 1 : Bring tissue paper
I love guys who bring tissue paper, it shows how "xi xin" they are. heez. grp a got one alr! wahaha.
Bonus point 2: Open any doors for galz
yes. just treat galz like they are princess ok! esp the cineleisure glass doors! they are damn damn heavy. galz are not suppose to use any energy on dates,coz we nd to balance on our heels n keep our hair pretty n neat.
Bonus point 3: Pull out the chair for the gal to sit
it may seem fake. but if u do it nicely..it is super gentlemen la! but don't do it at a kopitiam or if u have no confidence in lifting up the chair...
Bonus point 4 : Bring a Jacket
if u are gg for a movie date( applicable to someone else too..every tues movies.hmm) , it will be gd to lend the jacket to the gal in case she gets cold! so "xi xin" again. haha.
Bonus point 5 : Bring plasters
damn xi xin la this act! sure will let the gal melt! haha.
damn xi xin la this act! sure will let the gal melt! haha.
NOt forgetting the gals!
Part 2 :Bonus points System for GALZ on 1st Dates!
To be fair and square, I have gathered reliable information from my sources! So i shall present to you what makes guys turn off on 1st dates !
Turn off no 1 : Nv shave armpit hair.
Come on man! Guys u all have to agree with me on this one la! you all are Mr Hairphobic la..kaoz. You can be hairy but galz can't be hairy! What's this! Double standard!
Turn off no 2 : Smoking
Unless u are a smoker. if not u won't want to kiss a gal with smoke spewing out from her mouth.
Turn off no 3 : Hokkien Vulgarities
Since we are modernised, i think "fuck" should be ok rite? unless her every sentence have this word ! haha..anyway i heard of some gals that can scold hokkien vulgarities in one line! omg.super turn off.
Turn off no 4 : bring another gal friend and say oh i don't know it is a date
i thought this happens only at secondary school level. but some gals are still doing that..so don't be surprise. so now u need to pay for 3 ppl instead of 2 .( vomit blood)
Turn off no 5 : the gal wear ah ma panties and ah ma bra
i think some guys prefer sexy lingerie ! guys can only think of sex. so gals better wear something appropriate to turn them on !
Here comes the tough part : Bonus points
i realise gals just need to be a nice vase in order to have bonus points. oh well. i manage to squeeze out some points .
Turn on pt 1 : Make special gifts for men
This is contributed by Bennett! wah , i didn't know guys are so niang one leh! but i guess by making a gift , it shows that the gal appreciate the man's effort ! i must go learn baking cake, knitting or drawing soon!
Turn on pt 2 : Pay for her share( at least the gal must show that she wanna pay )
I guess this is what accounting guys may want? haha..but i guess they don't want the gal to take things for granted especially on the long run.
Turn on pt 3 : The gal is early/punctual for the date!
kao that is super bonus!some gals will be late for 30 mins or 1 hour to test your patience la!
Turn on pt 4: The gal stay a stone's throw away from your place
Wah save on cab fare, walking effort and time! super turn on! *slurps* and u can meet the gal easily for breakfast, lunch or dinner! even walking her dog! :)
Omg i can't think of any more bonus points. i was wondering if guys like gals who show the indication that they like u on the 1st date? i think it will be a bonus rite? n probably if they happen to accidentally touch his hand, legs or feet on the very 1st date will send guy's heart pumping! haha..
Ok this is beginning to sound like a cleo magazine entry. i guess this entry is not as good as the guys one. ahha..since i m a gal ! ( n a feminist too!)
9.7.08